Are you a secret ‘victim’?

Carry on living, now.
In a Reprogramming online session, my client Jason, said that he had trouble ‘being heard’ in relationships, felt ignored, even, felt like he was invisible or didn’t even exist.  Have you ever felt like that?

We explored some deep beliefs, and it turned out that Jason had blocked anger – which is quite common – all it takes is for you to experience an angry parent and be afraid, which can then create that you are ‘afraid of anger’.

This means though, not just that you are afraid of receiving anger from someone else – no, it also blocks you from expressing anger yourself!

Now, if you have blocked anger, you might think ‘what’s wrong with that?’  Well, what’s wrong with it, is it may well be responsible for causing you to feel like a doormat, to feel that no-one respects you, or to experience that you are ignored!

Why? – because, if you literally have ‘no anger’ whatsoever – if you cannot express anger, at all – then you have no ‘oomph’!  People will feel that!  They will instinctively know, that even if they treat you badly, you are not going to do anything!  You are not going to get angry and yell at them!  You are not going to stand up to them!  You are just going to back down, every time, ‘be nice’ and tell yourself ‘I shouldn’t get angry!’ as you burn, inside!

They feel this acquiescence, and they take it as silent permission to ignore you, to trample your feelings, to push you around, and to treat you as a doormat!

All because you blocked – anger!

Further, ‘anger’ as an energy, is part of the energy that gives you the spark to get up in the morning, to fight on when necessary and not give up, to fight off disease – to keep going!  If you blocked it, you may give up too easily – which can block your success, because persistence is an element of success – or even, you may become depressed and hopeless because of it.

I said ‘shall we change it?’ and Jason agreed.  I guided him to accept anger, so that he can balance it with his passivity – so now he can be more forceful in his life – have more power, and stop being such a victim in his relationships! 

Global Energy
~ Did you know that there is a ‘global energy network’?  Similar to the internet but for psychic and intuitive energies.  Through this network, I can sense you anywhere, just the same as when you are with me.  It’s handy, as it enables me to offer you remote support, like this:

 
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